In the Midst of Rivalries, Classiness and Respect Still Exist

The definition of a rival according to the dictionary is "one who attempts to equal or surpass another, or who pursues the same subject as another; a competitor". We can all agree that when we think of the word rivals the first thing that comes to mind is sports. Usually it comes down to the proud traditions of each school, team, or person. Location plays a huge part in the rivalry. Most of the time the teams are located within the same city, state, or region. The closeness, location wise, of the schools and the split fan bases makes the hatred of the opposing team that much stronger. When you think of rivals the first to pop into your head are Alabama/Auburn, Ohio State/ Michigan, or Duke/ North Carolina. The schools are so close to each other. With a win a team/fans can have bragging rights until the game is played again. Most of the time the teams don't play again for another year. The fans live off of winning a rivalry game. Rivalries are usually full of dislike for the opposing team and school. There is usually not much respect or classiness involved. I am here to let you know that respect amongst rivals is still alive today. I witnessed a truly classy act over the weekend that I will remember forever.

Let me start with a little bit of background information on the schools. Christian Brothers High School (CBHS) and Memphis University School (MUS) are private schools here in Memphis. They are located about 4 miles down the road from each other. Both schools are tops in athletics among private schools every year. Those two schools make up most of the private school population in the city. When you ask a young man, of high school age, where he goes to school the answer most of the time is CBHS or MUS. This in a very intense rivalry due to the closeness of the school and most of the students knowing each other outside of school. My grandfather, step dad, and uncle all attended CBHS. My little brother is currently a freshman at CBHS. Now that we have a little background on to the story at hand.

My grandfather Jim Mathis, Coach (as players refer to him) or Pappy (as family refers to him) is 77. He played sports at CBHS and ran track for Memphis State University. He went on to coach basketball at St. Dominic School for decades. He also coached at St.Agnes for many years. Pappy is such a great person and is such an influential person in the Memphis sports community. He has made such an impact on everyone he has coached. I have talked to numerous former players that have said "He helped mold me into the person I am today". He has a great sense of humor and loves nothing more than to spend time with his family. Last week Pappy had a small seizure and was rushed to the emergency room. The initial scan showed nothing. They did a follow up scan with dye and found a mass on his brain. The next day they preformed a MRI and it showed that the mass was a glioma tumor. This is not the news we wanted to hear. Our whole family is devastated and we all have been trying to spend as much time with him at possible.

Sunday night the whole family went with Pappy out to eat. We enjoyed a great meal. As we were leaving a group of guys, probably around 10-12 guys, came up to us at the car. This group of young men were in the middle of their dinner with their group of friends. What was about to happen was one of the classiest things I have ever seen. The young man who was in front said "Coach Mathis, we play basketball at MUS. Coach Peters (the long time MUS basketball coach) told us about your battle and what you are going through. We just wanted you to know that you and all of your family are in all of our prayers". They then continued to go up and shake his hand. Not one or two of them, but every single one of them. My whole family just stood there in aww for a minute. Things like that usually dint happen much any more, much less from a cross town rival. These young men could have easily continued to enjoy their social hour with their friends. Instead they took the time to get up and offer prayers and get well wishes to a cross rival. They could have easily just told one of us family members that they were keeping him in their prayers, but they instead wanted to tell Pappy face to face. I still have chills thinking about it. It was one of the most awesome things I have ever seen. I now have a whole new respect for MUS and the leadership that is at the head of that program. It goes to show that in the midst of rivalries, classiness and respect can still exist!

Please continue to keep my grandfather in your prayers. There has been a caring bridge website set up to keep up with his journey.
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/jimmathis/journal

Happy Thanksgiving! We are so blessed and thankful for all that we have. We hope you have a wonderful holiday spending time with the ones you love!

Veterans/Military....Thank You!

We here at ROWYJO would like to send out a big THANK YOU to all the Veterans and military out there on this Veterans Day! It is so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Sometimes we all just need to slow down, take a step back, and realize how blessed we are to live in this great county. Men and women of the military, past and present, put their own lives on the line so we could have the freedom to live our lives the way we would like. They sacrificed thier own lives for our country. There is no greater self-less act than that. If it weren't for them we would not be able to go out and enjoy the things in life we enjoy. Today we reflect on the pride and heroism of those that have come before us and those that still serve today. All of us know someone who is has served or who is currently serving. So make sure you give them a call, send them a text, or just shoot them an email latting you know they are appreciated. They fought for our freedom, so the least we can do is tell them thank you. If you are out and about and see a Veteran, make sure you shake their hand, look them in them in the eye, and tell them thanks for their service. There is no better way to start off a great sports weekend than to pay respect and thanks to those who allowed it to be possible. Here is to a great sports weekend and an even better Veterans Day. We are and will always be the greatest county in the world. Thank you for your service and God Bless America!

How old is too old for a fan to cry over a sporting event?

While watching Saban bowl V over the weekend, the tv crew for CBS caught one of the most unbelieveable things I have seen in a long time. An Alabama fan was caught crying at the end of the game. Before you give me the "Well kids cry at games all the time when their teams lose"nonsense, the guy looked to be in the 18-25 age range. Which is unaccetable. With about 30 or so seconds left in the game, LSU was in field goal territory and preparing to kick the game winner. The camera starting panning the crowd , and all of the sudden ..BOOM! It stopped on this guy, who looked to be in a fraternity due to sporting a tie at a football game, who was tearing up pretty bad. He was accompanied by his girlfriend, who was also crying. So my question to you is how old is too old to cry when your favorite team loses?

I totally understand getting upset when your favorite team loses. It hurts worse when your team has national title/championship aspirations. I get that. But as a fan you cannot cry at a sporting events. If you do end up crying, you cant get caught on TV. There are a few exceptions. Here are my rules about crying over sporting events:

1. No crying at the stadium
There is no crying in the stadium. If you are not part of the team or a family member of someone on the team, than you are not allowed to cry at the stadium. You can at least wait until you get in the car to let the water works begin.

2. No crying is allowed during a regular season game
No game during the regular season is worth crying over. The only game during the regular that you can even think about crying is senoir day/night and it is your favorite player's last game. Even then it is not allowed.

3. No crying over professional sports
No matter what you cannot cry over professional sports. If the players don't get upset enough after the big game loss, neither should you.

4. No crying after the age of 12
One should not be crying anyway. At that age, kids are still young. It is hard to accept a loss. I can understand being a kid getting into a sport and watching your team win all the time and being very upset when they lose. I grew up in the late 90's and early 2000's. Tennessee football hardly ever lost in that time span. So when they would lose, it would ruin my weekend. I never cried though.

5. No crying on TV
If there is a chance you might cry, do not sit on the first row. There is a better chance you will make it on TV by sitting on row one. If you are on the first row and crying, there is a great chance you will make it on TV and most likely get embarassed. Especially if your girlfriend is sitting next to you and crying right along with you.

Lesson of the Day: If you are older than 12, learn to control your emotions. If you cant, at least wait until you are somewhere not on TV in front of the world to start crying.

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Band of the Day: Arms of the Sun

Following in the footsteps of Alice in Chains and Stone Temple Pilots (pre 1999), Arms of the Sun brings back a sound of a lost generation. Their blend of grunge and alt rock will have you remembering the days when radio stations, well actually played ROCK music. Simply for their dedication and respect for a, well let's be honest, dying genre, I felt inclined to write about just how good this band is. Their self titled album is one, that after the first listen, will have you remembering the times when it wasn't rare and abnormal to hear distorted guitars or the raspy, voices of Layne Staley or Chris Cornell on the national airwaves. Here is to a band bringing back a classic sound that should NEVER be forgotten, and doing it rather well. Arms of the Sun FTW!

http://www.armsofthesun.com/ARMS/index.html

Saban Bowl V: #1 LSU @ #2 Alabama

LSU and Alabama will face off Saturday night in Tuscaloosa. Most around the SEC will refer to this game as Saban Bowl five, due to St. Nick winning a title a LSU before he darted off to the NFL. Others around the nation have been touting it as the National Championship of the regular season. This will be the fifth time that the Tigers and Tide have faced off since Nick Saban has been the head man at Alabama. The series is split 2-2 in that time span, so whoever wins will be in the driver's seat. The winner will be picked to win out in the SEC, favored in the SEC Championship game (SEC East is terribly weak this year), and will head into the National Championship game. So needless to say the winner of this game will have a huge leg up. Don't count out the loser though. They could easily finish the season with one loss, and back door their way into the national title game for a rematch. Of course they would need an undefeated StanFord and an undefeated Oklahoma State to lose. Stanford still has to play Oregon, and OSU still has to play rival Oklahoma, so anything can happen. Back to Bama and LSU. Both teams have great defenses, great running backs, run heavy offensive schemes and neither ask their quaterbacks to do too much. So something has to give. Here is my breakdown on who has the advantage by position:

Head Coach: Alabama - It makes me want to throw up saying this due to my loyalty to the Big Orange. There is no one better in the game right now. Because of him Alabama is a NFL factory.

Offense

OL: Push - This is a tough one. Both OL's are huge and pankcake other teams like it is happy hour at IHOP. It's going to be fun watching the offensive and defensive lines for both teams faceoff all game.

RB: Alabama - Trent Richardson - Not much explanation here. He is the best in the game. With another big game here, he might just wrap up the Heisman. The dude has been incredible this year.

QB: LSU - I have to give the edge to Jarrett Lee over AJ. Jarrett has done a great job of managing the game, and not turning the ball over. AJ has thrown some picks this year. I just trust Jarrett Lee more with the ball.

WR: Push - With both teams being run heavy, they don't feature their WRs a ton. Play action will be a huge part of the game for both teams. The winner could come down to which WR corp has a bigger game.

Defense

DL: LSU - Both teams have stout defensive lines. But LSU's is unbelievable. Some have gone on to say it might be one of the best they have ever seen.

LB: Alabama - The LBs for the Tide will all play in the NFL. They all are football smart and fly around the field. Most of them are big enough to line up at DE, if needed, and be successful.

Secondary: Push - Both teams have such a great pass rush, that the secondaries haven't had much to test them. The backfields feature two of the nation's best in Dre Kirkpatrick (Alabama) and Tryann Mathiu (LSU).

Special Teams: Alabama - Marquise Maze is one of the best returners in the country. He can change the game in a span of 80 yards in 10 secs. The dude has a feel for returning kicks that you just can't teach.

My prediction: Tennessee over MTSU by a score of...wait a minute my bad, wrong game. The team that turns the ball over the least will win the game. Bama will have an advantage by playing at home. Both fan bases are crazy, and are prabably the two most trash talking fanbases in the SEC. Throwing up as I type this, I can't go against Nick Saban and Alabama at home. Saban always seems to get his teams ready to play, especailly in big games. The winner of Saban Bowl five:


Alabama - 20 LSU-17


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Artist of the Day: Hoodie Allen

Stephen Markowitz aka Hoodie Allen, is a hip-hop artist from New York City who is making some big noise in the underground scene. A former Google employee, Allen grew tired of juggling his corporate life, along with writing, recording and producing his own music. So as soon as he was able to perform a few live shows, he took a huge risk and left. A good choice in my opinion. In July 2011, Hoodie released his third mixtape, Leap Year, which accumulated over 250,000 plays on SoundCloud within the first week of it's release. With his quick witted lyricism, and some damn good production it's only a matter of time before this kid blows up. Hoodie Allen FTW!

You can download his latest mixtape, Leap Year, for free at http://hoodieallen.com/

Not Golden Glove But Gold Glove - This Years Winners

I just want to set the record straight that there is a difference between a Golden Glove and a Gold Glove. Gold Glove refers to baseball and Golden Glove refers to boxing, just ask Ozzie Smith (http://twitter.com/#!/STLWizard) Now that we have that straight on to the task at hand. At the end of every season, Major League Baseball hands out awards to players who bring it in the field every night. The players who have the best year defensively, as voted on by the managers, receive the well known Rawlings Golden Glove Award. The award is given to eighteen players. Nine from the National League and nine from the American League. The award was actually created in 1957 to commemorate the best fielding performance at each position. There was a big change made to the rule this year. In years past the award had categories for each position until they got to the outfield. The outfield category was not broken up into left, center, and right. So the three outfield winners could all come from the same position. For example, If you had three center-fielders that had great years, all three could win an award even though they didn't play one of the other two outfield positions. Well this year, they decided to finally break the outfield awards up into each position. It is about time they finally did this. Each outfield position plays differently, so they should be rewarded separately. On to this years winners:

American League

C – Matt Wieters – Orioles

1B – Adrian Gonzalez – Red Sox

2B – Dustin Pedroia – Red Sox

SS – Erick Aybar – Angels

3B – Adrian Beltre – Rangers

LF – Alex Gordon – Royals

CF – Jacoby Ellsbury – Red Sox

RF – Nick Markakis – Orioles

P – Mark Buehrle – White Sox

National League

C – Yadier Molina – Cardinals

1B – Joey Votto – Red

2B – Brandon Phillips – Reds

SS – Troy Tulowitzki – Rockies

3B – Placido Polanco – Phillies

LF – Gerardo Parra – Diamondbacks

CF – Matt Kemp – Dodgers

RF – Andre Ethier – Dodgers

P – Clayton Kershaw – Dodgers

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Welcome to Rock Out With Your Jock Out!

ROWYJO is the blog that will keep you up to date on all things music and sports. The blog will comprise of updates from: Rez and Griff. We grew up best friends playing sports together from our teenage years all the way through high school. We went to different colleges to play baseball, and are now back in Memphis, TN working. We are huge baseball fans, but we have a true passion for music and sports in general. Rez will cover most of the music. He knows more about music than most would forget. That is why he was drafted. His niche is finding the unknown artist/bands out there that you should give a listen to. He will also pass along his ideas and thoughts when reviewing certain albums. Griff will cover most of the sports topics. He will write about things that have to do with sports both college and pro. Griff is to sports as Rez is to music. Griff was picked up off of waivers though. We will also have a fantasy football post every once in a while, just to give our two cents. This is a blog that we have always looked for, but were never able to find. We will also share stories and experiences from things such as concerts and or sporting events we have or will attend. Time to begin the best sports and music blog ever created. THUMBS UP LET"S DO THIS!….#ROWYJO!

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Band of the Day: Ballyhoo!

Bringing reggae tinged rock from warm beaches of Maryland Ballyh...wait Maryland!!! That's right this energetic, infectious surf rock posse represents Aberdeen, Maryland. Ballyhoo! brings a sound that could stand up to the best that the west coast has to offer. Their tunes will have you reminiscing the time when you passed out (corona in hand) to the sound of the waves at your favorite beach spot, to that epic 10 kegger, when you swear your buddy madeout with Bigfoot (I believe). BALLYHOO! FTW!

http://www.ballyhoorocks.com/